As a psychology expert (Ph.D.) accredited in multiple therapeutic interventions (DBT, CBT, SDT, ACT, CFT and IP), I offer counselling services to individuals and couples looking to express themselves better and communicate more effectively so they can have deeper and more meaningful romantic relationships.
do you feel disconnected from others because you struggle to express and communicate?
Then you're in the right place.
I help people heal the wounding preventing them from sharing what they think and how they feel with others so they can lead happier, healthier love lives.
areas of interest include...
- 1 Childhood trauma (in particular, attachment injury)
- 2 Relationship anxiety (e.g. abandonment fears)
- 3 Relationship avoidance (e.g. emotional unavailability and commitment phobia)
- 4 Codependency and behavioural addiction
- 5 Emotional regulation and resilience
- 6 Inner criticism and shame
- 7 Self-expression
- 8 Interpersonal communication
hey there
i'm dr. ness
A 2x award-winning Doctor of Psycholinguistics. Having studied psychology & language for 10+ years, I am an expert in those areas, but I am especially authoritative in the spaces of self-expression and interpersonal communication.
Following my academic career, I founded an international comms agency, Woo With Words, through which I worked with some of the best authors, speakers, educators and coaches in the industry (including Natalie Ellis & Danielle Canty of BossBabe and Jamie Kern Lima of IT! Cosmetics). I also supported a number of influencers and reality TV personalities, including Khloe Kardashian.
I’ve collaborated with big brands such as Coca-Cola, Estee Lauder & ELLE, and my work has been featured in major publications, including Vogue, Marie Claire, The Daily Mail, Daily Express, Metro, Entrepreneur, Medium & Psychologies Magazine.
Accredited in 5 different modalities of therapy (CBT, DBT, ACT, CFT & SFT), my self-help book, Express Yourself, is due to be published by Hay House in 2024.
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"From just 2 weeks on the course so far I feel SO seen, so heard and so EMPOWERED."
"I could not sing Ness's praises enough. [After] just 2 weeks [...] I feel SO seen, so heard and so EMPOWERED. Ness has this amazing way of seeing you, authentic you and pulling out your gifts and helping you to see them [...]
I am blown away so far. I cannot wait to see where I am [at the end.] I could not be more grateful! It came at the perfect time and I am loving every second. I am even excited to do the homework- which I think is the first time I've been excited for homework! haha. Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!!"
Lara Raybone, Embodiment Coach
"This woman has the ability to dive deeply into your essence and extract the things that you don't see [...] She is a divine light that creates confidence, clarity, strategy and steps to present your[self] to the world in a way that is going to be received in the most impactful way."
"This woman has the ability to dive deeply into your essence and extract the things that you don't see [...]
She is a divine light that creates confidence, clarity, strategy and steps to present your[self] to the world in a way that is going to be received in the most impactful way.
She delightfully and effortlessly incorporates her spirituality, intuitive guidance, and solid structured teaching experience to deliver and execute something very unique.
This [...] is something to step into if you are a puzzle that's missing a few pieces. Ness can complete that for you."
Hannah Cates,
Women's Coach
Women's Coach
"I feel so much clearer on the unique gifts I have and feel even more empowered to share them with the world."
"I'm only 2 weeks into this program and it's actually blowing my mind! I feel so much clearer on the unique gifts I have and feel even more empowered to share them with the world.
It also helped me think about what my TRUE passion and purpose is. Mine is freedom if I had to sum it up in one word but it goes deeper than that. Freedom to make choices, that's my huge WHY. [...]
Basically I couldn't be happier that I found this program and I can't wait to see where I am [at the end] 🤯"
Hollie Clarke, Coach to Service Providers
where + how I practice...
- I practice via Zoom, meaning you can access my services no matter where you are in the world. They’re also designed to fit YOUR life, which means you can tailor both how often you have sessions and for how long we work together.
the frequency + term...
I work with people on a weekly basis at first, switching to fortnightly sessions when the need/desire reduces.
The minimum term is 6 weeks, at which point we will review to decide on the necessity for and frequency of sessions moving forward. Reviews will be conducted every 6 weeks thereafter, until the arrangement ends.
I work with some people over shorter periods (6 weeks only) and others long-term. It all depends on the problems you’re wanting to solve (how many you have and how complex they are, for example).
the investment...
- As I do not believe in one-size-fits-all contracts (like weekly sessions for 12 weeks), I charge by the hour. A single session with me costs £100. If you wish to purchase a block booking of 6 sessions, a discount of 10% will be applied, making each session £90 (saving you £60 overall).
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"I've never felt so supported, listen to and understood. Just by knowing you, my confidence has grown 10 fold. You've empowered me to be more, do more and believe in myself more."
"I've never felt so supported, listen to and understood. Just by knowing you, my confidence has grown 10 fold. You've empowered me to be more, do more and believe in myself more. I'm super excited that I'm [working with you] you've blown my expectations out of the water, thank you for all the time and effort you are putting into my success!! ❤️"
Jerri Jarmeh, Photographer & Creativity Coach
"I have just got off the most amazing 1:1 call with Ness! We adapted the call and went a bit deeper and more personal and it was everything I needed today!"
"I have just got off the most amazing 1:1 call with Ness! We adapted the call and went a bit deeper and more personal and it was everything I needed today!
I love how Ness is able to adapt and switch and support in so many different ways, she knew exactly what I needed today without me needing to say anything!"
Hollie Clarke,
Coach to Service Providers
Coach to Service Providers
"At times it was like Vanessa was able to read my mind!"
"I cannot thank Vanessa enough for her wisdom and guidance [...] Her personality is the right balance of masculine and feminine energies for me which meant I felt safe and supported but accountable and empowered. At times it was like Vanessa was able to read my mind!"
Dominique Mullally Wealth Coach
application + consultation process...
To apply to work with me, fill out this form here. After that, you will see my availability for a consultation call. Simply select which date and time are most convenient for you and lock it in! This call will provide an opportunity for us to get to know each other better and, if suitable, make plans to work together (whether that be immediately or in the future). If I feel that I am unable to support you based on the information you provide in the application form, I will reach out to cancel our consult.
